It’s hard to be a teenager. We get it. We used to be adolescents too. Shocking! We know.
Having a younger sibling can make navigating this teenage journey particularly challenging. Especially when they do annoying things that cause you to seek refuge in your room for some much needed alone time. And, it gets you nowhere when your sibling is literally holding up her iPod and blasting Adele’s “Hello”, from the other side of your door.
And singing along with All The Feeling.
And every decibel available to her voice box.
Here’s the thing – you’re good at turning her annoyance into a game. We see you making her laugh so she no longer wants to pester you. You don’t realize it, but we notice you beginning to take challenging situations and turn them positive. (See? Singing “You Gotta Think Positive” worked!) You will need this skill every single day, the older you get.
You’re already making choices as a teen that give us reason to believe you will be one amazing adult. And that makes dad and I hopeful for your future.
We know the world is telling you that you need to charge down the hill now that you’re on the other side of childhood.
But, hey… don’t do that.
Give yourself time to grow up. Slow your roll every chance you get. One thing leads to another more often than you can even imagine. We don’t want you to get going so fast that it takes a crash to slow you down.
Rolling along will expose you to Evil. So, when you bump into Evil, because you will, remember to cling fiercely to any joy you can. That’s the antidote to Evil.
Fight for your joy, Sweetboy.
And be cautiously optimistic.
We desperately want to keep you from becoming jaded about the joy to be found in life because there is so much joy to be found, son. Despite everything going on in the world that we could stay angry and disheartened about, and despite the bad things that happen to us and around us, joy is still out there waiting to be found.
If you’ll just do you and be kind.
Stay in your own lane, but be willing to reach across the lines and help anyone who has fallen down in the lane next to you. Do this as often as possible. It helps build bridges.
Be kind even when it doesn’t make sense to the watching world. Eventually, this too will build bridges and relationships. And joy.
And when life seems out of control, or people seem out of their minds, or both? Shout out to God. He is always there, ready to help. His ultimate goal for you, son, is to make you more like Him and help you find and spread joy while you are here on this earth.
Find the joy and chase it, Sweetboy.
On the other side of childhood.
Mom & Dad